Miyoko Hikiji joined the U.S. Army in Iowa as a way to pay for a college education. Near the end of her enlistment contract in the Iowa National Guard and before completing her degree in journalism, her unit was called to active duty in Iraq in early 2003. Good looking at 5’3″ and 120 lbs., she didn’t “look the part,” but passed all of the qualifying tests, including weapons training and a 12.5 mile march in full uniform carrying a rifle and a 50-pound backpack.
“All I Could Be: My Story as a Woman Warrior in Iraq” is Miyoko Hikiji’s account of the year she spent in the Iraqi war. It’s her personal journey, but also a convincing argument that women in the military are beneficial to the mission, whatever it might be.
Her job in Iraq was to drive a five-ton truck transporting supplies, equipment, troops, and enemy prisoners in support of a regiment securing the northwest quadrant of the war-torn country. Her role was considered non-combatant, but it was dangerous and nerve-wracking. She was required to carry a rifle at all times.
“Our convoys of vehicles moving slowly across the open desert were an easy target,” she says. “Ambushes and explosions along the road were common.”
She and the few other women in her unit had to overcome gender bias. “You constantly had to prove that you were just as capable as the men. They often overlook the fact that women possess organizational and multi-tasking skills and a high level of selfless service that contribute to the mission.”
In addition to coping with the same fears, discomforts and frustrations as the men-long days, boiling heat, sand in their sweat, bad food, sleep deprivation, boredom, loneliness, homesickness, low morale, and the constant threat of an attack from any direction-women also had to deal with other soldiers’ snide remarks, crude behavior, and sexual harassment.
“Men enjoy having women around, but when men have to compete for their attention or affection, they often get angry, jealous and resentful.” The military forbids romantic relationships, but the policy is widely ignored. Hikiji and a tall machine gunner connected early on. They were discreet and never allowed their relationship to interfere with their
responsibilities. They didn’t object when given assignments that kept them apart for weeks at a time. Still, they were blamed for damaging morale.
“As long as a woman soldier does her duty in a war zone, as I did, she should be allowed to enjoy the comfort and support of a loving companion”, she says.
Hikiji earned respect from many of her comrades as well as 12 decorations during her full military career. Her company received the second highest unit decoration, The Valorous Unit Award, for extraordinary heroism.
All I Could Be is part military history, part memoire and part personal therapy. The book is a tribute to every man and woman in uniform for the sacrifices they make for their country.
Miyoko Hikiji, whose father is of Japanese descent, served a total of nine years in the U.S. Army and in the Iowa National Guard, five on active duty. Among her 12 military decorations are two Army Commendation Medals, two Army Achievement Medals, a Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, and an Iowa Humanitarian Service Medal.
Miyoko completed her B.S. degrees in journalism and psychology from Iowa State University in 2004. She is represented by Peak Modeling Agency and has been featured in print advertising and commercials regionally and internationally. She, her husband and two children live in Iowa.
What People Are Saying
“Given names such as Bev, Marlis, and Di now grace the combat roles of the American Army. This list includes the name of Iowan Miyoko Hikiji, and her chronicle ‘female Soldier’ is a compelling and enlightening read of life in a land of foreign sands, weather, culture, and language. Her sojourn of Operation Iraqi Freedom comes during the disjointed combat that saw females fight alongside male soldiers. Her story reveals that the American Army is stronger now with women in its front combat lines.”
– Scott Ayres, Colonel, Iowa Army National Guard
“A powerful story detailing the challenges, struggles and triumphs faced by the female Soldier on the non-linear battlefield.”
– Colonel Paul Ladd, U.S. Marine Corps (ret)
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You are terrific Miyoko. Thank you for so eloquently telling your story!
Thank you, “Today’s Honoree,” for honoring one of our veterans who is sharing her words and experiences with her community. This honoree has accomplished much, and it’s good to see her recognized for her variety of achievements. As we would say in the Navy, Bravo Zulu.